INTO DECENCY

One of the cookies I’ve gotten for doing this is the opportunity to ‘meet’ (and sometimes even meet) some really amazing people. There was a flurry of well-wishing emails among bloggers on New Year’s, and one that I sent to Jeff Cooper started me thinking as I rode in this morning.
I told him what a pleasure it was to have made his acquaintance, and that I was impressed by his intelligence, knowledge, and most of all by the obvious decency that shines through everything he writes.
And I started realizing that decency is another of those undervalued traits; it is not unique to the Left or Right, or much appreciated by either. As Jimmy Carter showed, it alone is not enough for a leader. In fact it may be a value that is absent in most great leaders…Churchill, Roosevelt, Truman…hmmm I need to think about this…but it is a value I cherish in the people I choose to associate with and a value that is somehow demeaned in our culture.
We value honesty, passion, those who hew to absolute values. Simple decency isn’t enough.
That’s too bad. From the dictionary:
decent [di snt]
adj.
1. polite or respectable: a decent family.
2. proper and suitable; fitting: a decent burial.
3. conforming to conventions of sexual behaviour; not indecent.
4. free of oaths, blasphemy, etc.: decent language.
5. good or adequate: a decent wage.
6. Informal. kind; generous: he was pretty decent to me.
7. Informal. sufficiently clothed to be seen by other people: are you decent?
[from Latin decens suitable, from decree to be fitting]
We’re talking bourgeois values here. And one of the things that I’m muddling toward is an articulation and defense of those values.
Damn, even I can’t believe that I’m doing this…
(forgot a clause)

2 thoughts on “INTO DECENCY”

  1. I don’t think decency is all that difficult in private life, but it sure seems to be in more public arenas. With crowds watching, there are always those attempting to outshine others with their outrageousness and immodesty. It is quite an achievement in these circumstances to keep the bar from being permanently lowered.

  2. You’ve got your finger on another good issue. I spent a few days poking at both sides of the decency issue on Winds of Change back in April 2002, when I was just getting started.

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